Anger

Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Ephesians 4:26-27, 31-32

 

If you had told me a few years ago that I had a problem with anger, I probably would have laughed and said “yeah right”!  But I have realized over the past couple of years that I DO indeed have a problem with anger.  You might be asking yourself how this is possible.  I have a loving, amazing husband, a wonderful son and I am doing what the Lord has called me to do WHERE He has called me to do it (as I understand and hear Him right now in my life).  You would be right, I am truly blessed and I would be the first one to admit that.  However, I think being human and our sinful nature doesn’t have anything to do with what our life looks like.  God blesses us even when we don’t deserve it, that’s what GRACE is all about-but that is for a different post entirely.  I am human and just like everyone else I struggle with sin on a daily basis.

For those of you who know me, you know I am a fairly open person.  I wear my emotions on my sleeve (anger, happiness, joy, pain).  When I started talking with Joel about how to deal with my temper especially, we talked about different things to do.  One of my suggestions was to blog about it.  However, it’s a different sort of blog.  It is personal and that is not always easy.  However, I really think this is something I am supposed to do.  Not sure why and I am sure it will not be an easy thing to do at times, but I want to be vulnerable and I want to change, that is the bottom line.

SO, the 1st blog is about WHY I am doing this.  I realized like I said that I had a problem with my anger a few years ago, but for the last year, it has been very noticeable.  I realized that I did not want Simeon growing up with a mom that has a bad temper and I especially didn’t want him growing up learning that behavior.  There are so many other things I want to give him, but I don’t want to give him the legacy of anger.

I look at my husband and feel he is such an example to me of someone who is constantly trying to be like Christ.  I realize that is what I want to be like.  Now, honestly, this is not easy.  It is not easy to realize that you are lacking in certain areas of your life.  In fact, there are times that I have been jealous of Joel because he is patient, kind and very tender-hearted and understanding to the needs of others.  I am not like that in most situations.  I am very blessed to have a husband that I can learn from.  Now, he would be the 1st to say he is not perfect, but in this area, like I said, I am glad I am able to learn from him.  He suggested reading through Philippians and Ephesians.  I really appreciate the above verse from Ephesians.  I like that it describes the ‘bad’ characteristics and then the ‘good’ characteristics and then talks about how God forgave us and that is what we should do for others.  Basically we should have the attitude of Christ.  I am far away from that, but I am striving for it.

I ask that if you read this blog regularly, that as you do, you would pray for me.  It is not an easy endeavor to change an engrained part of who you are.  Pray for change, for a likeness to Christ and an attitude of tenderness.

 

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Trip Cancellation

We were planning on leaving on Wednesday and going to Santo Domingo this week and eventually out to Guayaquil for the Coastal District’s Annual Retreat at the beach but all of this got changed when the Black Plague hit the Delp household.  Ok… Maybe Black Plague is a bit of an exaggeration but it has been pretty bad.  Mainly for Joel.  He has just been hit with a really bad sinusitis with severe throat pain, a cough that keeps him awake all night and has averaged a couple hours of sleep each night, congestion in the nose and throat and constant headaches.  And, to top everything off, he woke up with Pink Eye this morning.  So, safe to say he has had a rough go.

But within the last couple of days, Kim and Simeon have shown signs that they are getting this now also as they have a cough and runny nose.  We are praying that it isn’t anywhere near as bad as it has been for Joel.  With all of this, we felt it best to not try to spend hours on end in the car driving for this trip.  Please pray that we can all recover in a relatively quick amount of time with as little discomfort as possible.

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Updates: Meetings, Reports & Translations

We just wanted to fill you in on what we have been doing.  Kim finished up classes for a little while with the last day being watching the Passion in Spanish with our Spanish teacher on Good Friday.  She had never seen it before and this stirred a good conversation.  You can continue to pray for her.  We’ll both eventually be taking more classes but we’ll be busy here for a little while so we’ll be holding off for at least a few weeks.

Joel has gotten busy with meetings.  His responsibilities with FACE are increasing.  He is now the head of the Health subdivision of FACE which actually works quite nicely because this is the division that Kim’s project in Tena will fall under, so we’ll each have a role with this project.

But the main thing that has been keeping Joel busy is finishing up the report on the Camp in Santo Domingo.  This ended up being a quite lengthy document of 33 pages, which the longest part of it was the translation from English to Spanish.  It was good we still had our Spanish teacher to help us out.  It’s good to have it done it did take many hours of blood, sweat and tears – ok, Joel really didn’t do any of those.  But the late nights and long hours did result in him getting sick!

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Agua Potable (Fresh Water)

Sorry, it has been a little while since we have updated.  I (Joel) made a trip a couple of weeks ago to the Camp in Santo Domingo for more meetings on the Agua Potable project.  Again, just to refresh your brains, this is the project that I am helping with to bring clean water to the Camp as well as a nearby community of 300 folks or so.

Well, with this last trip, things progressed very well.  Our first meeting was with Santiago, the project coordinator from FACE, as well as the Vice-President of the area leadership that covers that area.  We were discussing the possibility of the project and its funding.  During the course ofthe discussion, we figured out that before we can know exactly how much the project will cost an official “study” will have to be carried out.  A study is conducted by local officials in order to discern the feasibility of the project, determine the project costs and every other type question like that using all of the necessary topographical type information and equipment.  The one problem with it (as with many things in life) is that a study costs money.  And the small amount of funds that are available for the area (that the Vice-President is in charge of) are for carrying out a project like this and not just doing a study.  But from that meeting it was deicided that all of us, including the Vice-President, would go to meet with the Mayor’s assistant the next day to discuss the funding for the study.  This we did with a similar type result.  The mayor’s assistant wasn’t able to give us the necessary funds for such a project but that he was willing to go with us including the Vice-President of the area to meet with the people who could the next day.  The meeting the next day also went well.  From that meeting, it was decided that they would do the study and provide it as a service; however, the community would need to pay for 20-30% of the costs of the study.  So, now, all we are waiting for is for them to determine how much the study will cost so they can tell us how much the 20-30% will be.  I’m not sure where the money will come from for this 20-30% but we are praying that God will provide.

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Books we recommend from this year (SO FAR)

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When Helping Hurts-Thoughts on Chapter 2: What’s the Problem?

The 1st part of Chapter 2 starts with asking the question: What is poverty? In the 90’s, the World Bank asked this question to the poor themselves to try to get a better understanding of poverty. Those results, FYI, were published in a 3 volume series of books called, Voices of the Poor. Before I give a couple quotes from the poor themselves, I ask YOU who are reading to take a couple of minutes and write down your thoughts about what YOU think poverty is…
From Cameroon, one person explains poverty as: “{The poor have} a feeling of powerlessness and an inability to make themselves heard.”

From Vietnam: “If you are hungry, you will always be hungry, if you are poor, you will always be poor.”

And from Uganda: “When one is poor, she has no say in public, she feels inferior. She has no food; so there is famine in her house; no clothing, and no progress in her family”

I’m interested to know how YOU in your few minutes to think of what poverty was described poverty. I think the tendency is to think of poverty in terms of material things, or lack thereof. Did you notice that the way that the poor described poverty, although they discuss lack of material things, they also discuss their poverty in psychological and social terms such as inferior, no progress, powerlessness, and lack of being heard.. This is probably different from how you desribed poverty.

An important focus of this chapter can be summed up in this quote:

“This mismatch (the one I talked about above) between many outsiders’ perceptions of poverty and the perceptions of poor people themselves can have devestating consequences for poverty-alleviating efforts.”

A different way to look at it is looking at it like going to the doctor. If you see a doctor and they misdiagnose you or treat only your symptoms and not the cause of your illness, will you get better? It is similar in working with the poor. If only symptoms are treated or if the problems are misdiagnosed, the poor will not improve their situation, and their lives might be made worse!

For more information on this book you can check out this website:
http://www.whenhelpinghurts.org/

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“Con Fe”

Rueben Rocha, the Covenant Camp in Santo Domingo Administrator

I just got back safely from my recent trip to the Covenant Camp and Santo Domingo and returned very encouraged, so I wanted to share a little bit with you all.  Ruben Rocha (translates Rueben Rock by the way which is very fitting with what I’m about to share), the camp administrator, has a little saying that I have heard him say on several occasions: “con fe.”  It directly translates as “with faith” but we would normally say something like, “I believe such and such will happen because I have faith that God will provide.”  He doesn’t say all of that of course because we know what he means when he says “con fe.”  He uses the saying as a sort of decree or charge to the rest of to “have faith!”  Or maybe to put it into more words, it would be, “I have faith that God will provide, so should you!”

I have seen his faith demonstrated on several occasions and I have seen how God has provided just has he had faith that He would.   To give a few examples, when we were building the new pavilion for the camp (see previous Santo Domingo posts below), the camp actually ran out of money in its bank account.  The accountant for the camp was panicking and asking for a loan from the National Church to cover the remaining funds for the project and to be able to pay the employees salaries for the month.    Ruben responded that “con fe,” God will provide.  And He did.  They received just enough extra groups and bigger groups paying in advance to cover both the remaining costs for the building project as well as the employees salaries for the next month.  They have since recovered with more groups to be far from being in the red.

I have also seen similar type things happen for the family to be able to afford to start their oldest daughter, Liseth, in college.  Ruben also decided to enroll her in classes starting this month not knowing where all the money for tuition would come from.  Well, you guessed it, she has started classes this month and they had just enough to pay for this semester.

Finally, I have also seen his faith and enthusiasm at work in the “agua potable” project (see prior posts below), which by the way I will share about the updates on this project in my next post.  He has been so energetic and enthusiastic with the community that is trying to acquire the clean water that it has rubbed off on everyone.  He repeats his chant of “con fe” and it gets everyone excited.  And I have seen this project move along very quickly and I think a big part of that is Ruben’s energy and enthusiasm.

Now, of course, Ruben is a very humble man and I know if I would be asking him about this post he would say that all credit goes to God and his faith shouldn’t be given credit.  But I think it’s good to show examples of people with a strong faith because they can be an encouragement to us all.  I have been totally encouraged by his faith and so should you!  Maybe there is something to that verse about the mustard seed (Matthew 17:20).

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WHEN HELPING HURTS: Thoughts on Chapter 1

…WHY WAS ISRAEL SENT INTO CAPTIVITY?…
It seemed like a pretty easy question when I first read it. All of us probably read or heard as a kid about how the Israelites worshipped idols and that is why they were sent into captivity. However, this was NOT the PRIMARY reason God was so angered by the Israelites…THIS was news to me. For some reason or another, the sermons I have heard all my life and in my own personal Bible reading, the idea of failing to care for the poor and oppressed was never touched on. It seems like a great sermon series to me, but I’m not exactly sure it is something all of us want to hear. Maybe that is why it has been glossed over, by most of us. For some reading this book, maybe this is not what stands out to them in this first chapter. However, it bothered me (Kim) so much that all my life I have thought I was pretty knowledgable about the Bible, only to realize this KEY issue in the old testament that I NEVER knew about! This is just CRAZY to me!
God speaks pretty directly to Moses, giving numerous commands to care for the poor. The commands were so extensive that they were designed to achieve the ultimate goal of eradicating poverty among God’s people: “There should be no poor among you,” God declared. (Deut 15:4). Israel didn’t fulfill God’s commands. Isaiah is pretty clear in what God was thinking of the Israelites. Even comparing them to Sodom and Gomorrah! “I have had enough of burnt offerings, of rams and the fat of fattened animals. …Stop bring meaningless offerings! Your incense is detestable to me! (Portions of Isaiah 1:10-13, 16-17. And in Isaiah 58, again He is direct, “Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to procide the poor wanderer with shelter-when you see the naked-to clothe him and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?”
Israel had mastered personal piety and the outward expression of formal religion. Just as many of us today go to Church on Sunday’s, attend midweek meetings, go to church retreats, meals etc…Israel was bringing sacrifices, celebrating religious holidays, fasting etc. But God wanted and WANTS more! What is out responsibility? When people look at the church, they should see the very embodiment of Jesus himself! When people look at the church, they should see the ONE who declared-in word and in deed to the leper, the lame and the poor-that HIS kingdom is bringing healing to every speck of the universe.
1 John 3:16-18 sums up well…
“This is how we know what LOVE is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down
our lives for our brothers. If anyone has material possessions and sees his brother in need but has
no pity on him, how can the love of God be in him? Dear children, let us not love with words or
tongue but with actions and in truth”
Last thoughts:
With most Americans living on $90/day and approximately 1 BILLION people in the world living on less than $1/day, with 40%, YES 40% of the world’s populations living on less than $2/day, what is OUR response and RESPONSIBILITY?

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In Santo Domingo

We just wanted to update everyone that Joel will be traveling to Santo Domingo again this week from Monday through Wednesday. He is going for more meetings over the agua potable (“clean water”) project. Please pray for safe travel and successful meetings.

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Preaching – Prayer Request

I (Joel) just wanted to write and ask for prayer for this Sunday and the next.  I will be preaching for the first time in Spanish… well, ok… technically, I will be reading my first sermon in Spanish.  I have the sermon series prepared and have it all translated and since my Spanish isn’t good enough just yet to speak freely, I will be using a script to preach in Spanish.

I will be doing a two week sermon series examining the early name for the Covenanters: Mission Friends.  The first week I’ll focus on the word “friends” and what that meant to the early Covenanters and then the second week will be “mission”.  I am hoping to be able to provide a little history on the Covenant as well as providing a picture as what the church should look like today.

I’d very much appreciate your prayers as, even though I’m just reading, I have a lot of nerves about speaking/preaching in Spanish for so long. It’s defintely a stretch!!!

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