Transition to the Familiar?

Yes, you read that correctly and although it sounds completely opposite, it explains pretty well where we are, oddly enough.  Our coming back to Ecuador on Tuesday, the days we scheduled after moving it back from February was maybe a little surprising to us.  That probably sounds more odd than the title, huh?  We were so busy the weeks leading up to leaving that the decision to actually leave was made when our friend from Chicago came down to Goshen to pick us up!  That day, which was Monday, did not seem like the typical day you would think of occurring prior to moving out of the country.  It seemed very unorganized and disheveled.  Probably because that is how we had been feeling.

We stayed with friends in Mt Prospect that evening and had our last “American” meal of Steak N Shake, full of greasy calories and topped off with shakes for all!

We woke up and headed to the airport, even without getting our last cup of Starbucks.  We were sending our dog, Hireq down as well and so we had to make a stop to drop her off before going to our terminal.  We basically got to our check in, which took quite some time as you can imagine with the amount of bags we had and finally made it to our terminal with mere seconds to spare to go to the bathroom and board the plane.  It was quite a whirlwind to say the least.

A friend asked when we thought it would hit us that we were going to Ecuador…

I don’t know about Joel, but for me, it happened as the plane touched down in Ecuador.  As I saw the massive, majestic mountains, all the green and the familiarity of Ecuador just brought a flood of emotions.  Overwhelmed at what we left behind with Joel’s mom and leaving family and friends, not feeling like we said proper goodbyes.  Overwhelmed at the unknown of what seems so familiar, but what is now so different and what FEELS so different about being here.  We know our surroundings and they are familiar, but things have changed, we have changed and are different than the people we were before we left a year and a half ago.  It’s a new life for us and for myself, I hadn’t thought much about that before.  I think that is best seen through Simeon.  He was only 2 and a half when we left and he is now 4.  So much development has taken place in his life in that small window of time, but yet it is so noticeable.  He is adjusting fine, he seems to love the fact we can be outside without a coat, the parks and he even starts conversations with people (in English of course).  But I love that the language barrier does not faze him, he just keeps talking and trying to explain himself and will every once in a while add a Spanish word.

When we arrived in Quito, we were unsure if there would be someone to pick us up, we really hadn’t set that up.  But we were greeted by maybe 15 people including our friend Henry, our regional coordinator Eugenio, and many faces from Cayambe, where our work is going to start, including Pastor Jose (from our Santiago Partnership video if you have seen it) and members of his family and church.  We made quite a seen and it was so humbling and overwhelming!  But it made us feel so loved!  Our good friends Mandy and Ricardo also called us on our way to Quito to welcome us!  Safe to say, we were welcomed with open arms!

Our apartment is very large for just the 4 of us, but we are so excited to have a place we can temporarily call our own and house MANY people if needed!

The evening we arrived, Tuesday, Joel traveled back to the airport to pick up our dog, only to find out that we couldn’t get her out of customs because no one was there to talk to.  On Wednesday, we had our first Ecuadorian meal, at our favorite Colombian restaurant including arepas, huevos (eggs) cheese and the best coffee in the world!  We then all headed to the airport to “find Hireq” as Simeon put it!  After probably 7-10 trips back and forth around different places at the airport, transporting 2 vets from the airport to another facility to examine Hireq, we finally heard her bark after she saw Joel and were able to get her out after almost 24 hours!  It was good to have her home with us and I think she is adjusting well!  FYI, if you are shipping a pet to South America, it is a good idea to make sure they are on the same flight as you.  That is what was such an issue between Copa and United airlines because she was on one and we were on another.

Today, THursday, we all ventured different ways, Joel went back to the airport and then to check on a couple of pertinent things we are going to need to do here soon, and Simeon and I went to the park, to eat lunch, and shopping for groceries and then taking a taxi and back to a park.  He was in bed by 7:30 and I SO wanted to follow him!  This pregnant mama was tired!

So, there ya go.  That’s what we have been doing.  We will try to do better about getting pictures and videos to show.

Please continue to pray for Ruthie, she continues to have good days and bad days, with many ups and downs.  Today was a good day and we pray for more of those!

The next week or so we will be working on:  Getting our visas registered, starting Spanish classes, getting a car, establishing OB care as our baby is due in June, getting cell phones and catching up with friends!

 

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Livin the Crazy Life

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We DO wish we could say we’re “livin'” the easy life” right now, but it seems to be quite the polar opposite of that.  We don’t want to be downers, but it has been a difficult few weeks and it seems to be continuing into these last few days.  Last week, the day before we were going to start packing our container to send down to Ecuador, we found out the company that was going to ship it, refused to do so.  We eventually found out the likely reason is there is currently a ban on sending containers into Ecuador that are ‘donations’; something the company we were working with did not know about previously and still isn’t very clear at this moment.  Joel has been frantically trying to figure out other options to get the container into Ecuador.  We are scheduled at this time to leave for Ecuador March 18th, just 3 days away!  This is quite a short time to get so many things arranged for sure!  Yesterday, we also needed to take Joel’s mom, Ruth, to the hospital due to a fever.  She was admitted for an early respiratory infection and has been on antibiotics and breathing treatments.  She is still in the hospital, but hopefully will be discharged soon.

We definitely don’t mean for this to be a pity party for Joel and Kim.  That being said, we are discouraged.   Even simple things, like misplacing a check book today was a minor catastrophe a midst everything else we are working through.

We just can’t say how much we need your prayers.  We do feel heavy burdens as we prepare to leave and in making decisions in that direction.  We know our call, we know our God is SO much bigger than these things and we are truly seeking Him with open hands to show us our next steps.   Please continue to pray with us.

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Between THERE and HERE…AGAIN

Though I have tried to put together some thoughts for writing this blog, for some reason the words just haven’t come very easily.  Maybe it is because there hasn’t been a whole lot of time TO put any thoughts together.  Maybe it’s the ‘pregnancy brain’ that I could blame it on.  But as I sat down to write this post, I realized that I had no words because I really hadn’t taken the time to listen.  No one I’m sure would argue that our lives are crazy right now.  Maybe if we just had one thing to focus on, like moving to another country to focus on, but there is oh so much more than that, that is pulling our minds, thoughts, and especially our hearts in that direction.  When the one direction all of those things NEEDS to be is above.  Focused  on Jesus as He is the whole reason we do what we do.  Why do I so often forget it.  Why is it that it is when I no longer can manage, no longer can focus, no longer can find words that I run to Him?  Maybe it’s arrogance, maybe it’s time, maybe it’s just another excuse.  I haven’t found words because I haven’t sought the person that can give them to me.  The One who can help me organize my thoughts and emotions that surround leaving the States and returning back to Ecuador.  We talk so frequently in churches and with individuals about Ecuador.  We talk about going back, our ministries, our friends and how we long to be there.  We do.  Honest.  But right now there are so many directions the our hearts are pulled.  I don’t know that I will be able to fully articulate where we are emotionally, at least where I am emotionally at this point when I think about returning to Ecuador.  It wasn’t so long ago that we were pulled in multiple directions as well thinking of returning to the States from Ecuador…

So, we find ourselves between there and here, once again, but flip flopped from the last time.  One part so frantically wants to get to Ecuador that I sometimes don’t want to worry about packing and I just want to be on the plane.  Some days I start to think of what we are leaving, our families, our friends, our churches.  We don’t know what the future holds and we don’t know how these decisions we make now will impact things in the future.  But do we ever?  I think a lot of the kids in Cayambe and in Ecuador.  Those that have no place to go right now, those who don’t feel safe, that have nothing to eat, that have no one to love them and I think “THAT is why we are going.”  So, you may wonder what missionaries go through when they go from one country to another, leaving their passport country and going to their country of service.  This is it I guess.  It’s not clean cut, it’s messy, just like life in general.  It’s hard.  It sometimes leaves us speechless (not easy to do).  But is it worth it?  Absolutely.  Because if we were doing anything else, we wouldn’t be doing what God has called us to.

Our hearts are heavy, we are tired, some days I wonder how Joel finds the time and especially the energy to do all he is doing.  We are heavy laden with burdens.  Please pray for us.  But know that we are seeking God, we are reaching for Him and clinging to Him to bear what we can’t.  We need peace and rest, both of which come from Him.

Of course, since I draw near to God through music, I have a song by one of my favorite artists, Kari Jobe.  It’s simple, but so pure and so true.

“HERE”

Come and rest here
Come and lay your burdens down
Come and rest here
There is refuge for you now

[Pre-Chorus:]
You’ll find His peace
And know you’re not alone anymore
He is near
You’ll find His healing
You’re heart isn’t shattered anymore
He is here

[Chorus:]
Breathe in
Breathe out
You will
You will find Him here

[Bridge:]
I will rest in You

[Outro:]
You will find Him
You will find Him here
You will find Him
You will find Him here

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Update on Ruthie

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Another update on Ruthie.  We got her home from the hospital in Mishawaka last night.  Everything went ok with that and her first night at home went pretty well also.  I think they both appreciate being back in the house where they can be more comfortable.

Continued prayers are appreciated as we travel back out to Chicago tomorrow to have another appointment with the medical oncologist and she will begin (hopefully) chemotherapy on Thursday to begin attacking these tumors.  Please pray for the trip to Chicago on Wednesday and then as she begins treatments.

 

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Update on Ruthie

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Thank you for all of your prayers for Joel’s mom, Ruth Delp. Yesterday, she was moved from the hospital in Chicago to an Acute Care Hospital in Mishawaka, IN, so she is much closer to home now, which is better for everyone. She needs more time in the hospital as she is still healing and adjusting to the tracheostomy. She has been doing better with the trache each day. She can now speak a little and has eaten a little bit of food. Otherwise, she is now getting her nutrition through the G-Tube. She will have her next appointment with Medical Oncologist in Chicago next Wednesday and will probably start chemo next Thursday. Please pray that this happens so we can start to fight the tumor growth. Thank you everyone so much for your prayers!!!

Because of the medical difficulties for Ruthie and our desire to help Joel’s parents through this difficult time, we have decided to move our departure date for Ecuador to March 18th.  Basically all of our goals for this year remain the same… starting with language school in Quito, opening the clinic and building the first home as well as moving to Cayambe and having our second child (that one’s not really a goal… but a reality!) but just our departure for Ecuador is being pushed back a little.

 

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An altered response

change_mindI’ve noticed something recently… my response has changed.

During this year (or more!) of Home Assignment, we have been asked a lot of questions of what it’s like to be a missionary, what Ecuador is like, etc, etc, etc.   There are quite a few questions that come up fairly often, so much so that Kim put together a list of our top 5 questions asked of us, and, when we have more time with a church, we go through answering those questions during our talk so that way we can help answer those questions that people often ask.  People seem to really enjoy hearing the responses to those questions.  And now that I’ve perked your interest, here they are:  5) Aren’t you afraid you will get a parasite (or insert some foreign illness) or something? 4) What do you miss most about the States? 3) How’s your Spanish? 2) Why Ecuador and not a ministry in the States? 1) Are you nervous about the government in Ecuador?

These are always fun questions for us because it gives us the opportunities to dispel misconceptions about what it is like to be a missionary and share a little bit about ourselves.

I’ve noticed that recently one question that didn’t quite make the list (probably number 6!) is one that I have a little bit tougher time answering right now.  This question normally goes something like this: “Wow!  It must be so tough to be a missionary?” Or maybe it comes out in another way, “You are really, really HOLY to be a missionary… I could never do that!”

This has always been one of my favorite questions to answer because I have been able to answer it pretty openly and honestly by saying… well, actually, it’s not that tough for me.  I love to travel, meet new people, try out new foods and share in ministry in an intercultural context.  Further, my friends and coworkers in Ecuador actually make it extremely easy for me to serve as a missionary and I love it!  Then I usually bring in the closer… and I have a call to be a missionary and if I God called  you to be a missionary, it wouldn’t be so hard for you either.

This is the way that I have answered this question all year long.

Well, I noticed something here recently… my response has been altered.  The last time I was asked this question (this past weekend with our church visits), I couldn’t answer the question the same way and answer it honestly.  For the first time in my life, I have been feeling recently that it is “tough to be a missionary.”

Whenever people have asked about the fact that it is so hard to move away from my family and friends in the U.S., I pointed out the fact that we have things like Skype in which we can talk with our family all the time through a Webcam or our Ooma Phone which allows us to have a U.S. phone number that we can call people in the U.S. and they can  call us at any time without any international long-distance charges.

Well, even though that is all still true, I know now for certain that it IS really tough to be a missionary when your family is not doing well.  When you have someone close to you in the States, that is struggling.  Nothing has changed with our call, our call is to be missionaries in Ecuador and we will be returning to Ecuador in mid-March but that doesn’t mean that moving back will be easy.  This will be the first time for us that going to Ecuador will be extremely difficult.  That doesn’t take away from the fact that we have many friends and brothers and sisters in Christ that we can’t wait to see in Ecuador… it’s just hard to leave right now.

Sorry to write a less than encouraging post, but we try to make our blog a place where we can express ourselves and what we are going through and we know that you all care and will be praying!  Thank you for that!

 

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Thank you Covenant Community, Redeemer and Faith Community Covenant Church!

LogoWell, we had a jam packed weekend but the definite highlight to our weekend was the visits with three Covenant Churches.  We visited Covenant Community Church of Fairfiield, OH, Redeemer Church of Hamilton, OH and Faith Community Covenant Church of Youngstown, OH.  Thank you to all three of you for our time together and all of your love and support!

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Busy Times

Office Worker with Mountain of PaperworkSafe to say… we’ve been busy!!!

Just to update you all on what has been going on with us, especially since we have not been especially good about blogging updates here recently…

Two weeks ago we started moving out of our rental house and into Joel’s parents to be able to help out there and to start getting set for our move back to Ecuador.  Well, we completed that process at the beginning of this week.

Joel took a load of donations and personal belongings to Coshocton in a U-Haul on Sunday, February 8th.

We’ve been making frequent trips to Chicago for Ruthie’s appointments and time in the hospital.

Tonight, we are visiting with two Covenant churches in the Cincinnati area of Ohio.  The names of the churches are Community Covenant Church and Redeemer Church.  We’ll be staying with Joel’s brother and his family tonight.

On Saturday, we will be driving up to Coshocton to take more donations/personal belongings to the container loading site as well as having our Quarterly Business Meeting for the Santiago Partnership.

On Sunday, we will be speaking at Faith Community Covenant Church in Youngstown, OH and then traveling back to Goshen.

And then we’ll be heading back to Chicago to help finish up Ruthie’s time in the hospital.

Your prayers for us during this time are critical but please especially lift up Ruthie to our good and faithful Father.

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Update on Ruthie!

Grandparents-grandkids_funny2Joel’s whole family (parents and siblings) and Kim and Simeon all traveled out to Chicago yesterday.  The positive thing on the day is that we were able to get our Visas for returning to Ecuador.  Praise the Lord for that!

More importantly, we were all heading out there to meet with the doctors at Northwestern Memorial Hospital to see what they recommend for treatment for Ruthie.

What we have found out is that the tumors are even more extensive than what we had previously thought.  They wrap all around her neck.  The doctors said that surgery isn’t an option at this point because the tumors are so extensive.  Radiation also isn’t good because it causes so much damage and the neck is such a delicate area.  They decided that chemotherapy is the best option at this point even though chemotherapy often isn’t very effective on these types of tumors.  We are hoping and praying that since the tumors are so aggressive that chemo may be more effective now.

Ruthie will be getting a tracheostomy, which is recommended by the physicians  preventatively so that it doesn’t have to be done in an emergency.  The tracheostomy will not help her breath at this point.  It is basically just in place for the possibility in the future that she would have difficulty breathing.  At this point she will and is able to breathe on her own and will be able to speak and swallow as she has been able to, although this has been a struggle for her since the first surgery in 2011.  Their other recommendation was for a g-tube or feeding tube placed.  Because chemotherapy is so draining, they want her to have the best nutrition she can.  She will still be able to take in what she has been, but she will just be getting additional nutrients to gain weight and be in as good as condition as possible for treatment.

Because of these developments, we have decided to postpone our return to Ecuador so that way we can care for Ruth and Earl during the chemotherapy.  PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE CONTINUE TO PRAY FOR HEALING!  We ask that God’s presence and love be felt throughout this whole ordeal but also that He heal Ruthie, if He so chooses to provide healing on this earth.

 

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A Prayer Request for Ruthie

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We would like to ask for prayer for Ruthie, Joel’s mom, pictured about with her husband, Earl, and all of their grand kinds.  Some of you who have followed along with us for a while may remember praying for Ruthie in the past.  Ruthie had a malignant tumor removed from the back of her neck in May of 2011.  Regrettably, the cancer has returned and she now has 5 tumors in her neck with one large one on the left side that wraps around to the back of her neck.  We are pursuing and deciding upon the best treatment option for her.  We are thankful that we haven’t left for Ecuador yet and are able to support them during this time.  Please pray for healing for Ruthie and for God’s comfort and love during this time for Ruthie, Earl and the rest of the family.

 

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