The Witness of Female Pastors: Empowering the Church to Dream

13 comments Written on August 18th, 2015     
Filed under: Testimonies and Stories
chic2Cathy Kaminski is the lead pastor at Trinity Community Church in Cincinnati, OH. She is a self proclaimed jogger, coffee-lover, corny joke enthusiast, and sinner saved by grace.

Earlier this summer I was getting ready to take some of our high school students to a youth conference known as CHIC, (www.chic2015.org). While every pastor is different, when preparing for a week away I feel the need to overcompensate by delegating even the most minute tasks. It was in this attempt at organized chaos when one of the church-goers informed me, “It’s ok Pastor Cathy. I’ll be the pastor this week.” This church-goer happened to be a seven year old girl.

I stooped down, smiled and encouraged, “Sounds like a plan! Do you want to preach too?” She laughed and told me next time. But to tell you the truth, I wasn’t joking. In that moment I was filled with a sense of joy and I couldn’t quite place why.

Throughout the course of the following week, while ministering to students and seeing God move in unimaginable ways, I took time to reflect on other instances when filled with that same unexplainable joy. There was a time around Christmas. A mom shared a story of her youngest daughters. They had received toy microphones as presents. How did they decide to play with these microphones? One might think: be a pop star. A comedian, perhaps. But no, these girls decided to pretend to be “Pastor Cathy.” Their mother informed me they welcomed the family to church, gave announcements, led songs, and even gave mini-sermons. My heart was filled with these precious little ones.

Cathy KaminskiBut it was more than love for these little girls that was causing my heart to swell. It wasn’t until an afternoon at CHIC that the picture finally became clear. I had the privilege of partnering with another youth group to embark on the adventure that is CHIC. Our three students joined a church with twenty and together we enjoyed the conference. Towards the end of the week, the other pastor, a male colleague of mine, shared an unexpected benefit of joining forces. In his context, many of his students have not experienced the leadership of a female pastor. Being able to minister well, love, and care for these students expanded their understanding of God.

His insight opened my eyes to what God had been stirring in me for months. Why am I so overwhelmed by these little girls pretending to be pastors? Because they are growing up knowing that God can use them in every single capacity of church leadership. It hit me that I might be the only lead pastor they remember from childhood and their understanding of God and women in leadership will forever be impacted by that fact.

A little of my story: I used to be a complementarian, (meaning I did not affirm women in leadership). I had never seen it. Never experienced it. And often had doors slammed in my face if I challenged it. It was a long journey towards answering the call to pastoral leadership. This is a life I could have never imagined and was unable to dream for myself.

But these little girls, these student, male and female, for all of the parishioners I am privileged to pastor…for them a female pastor is normal. Seeing a woman preach, teach, administer communion is not questioned, but celebrated. I get to be a part of a witness that opens people’s eyes to how God calls humanity to serve. I struggled for so long because I could not picture what female head leadership could look like. Now I get to paint that picture!

I don’t know your context. I don’t know your story. But I do know that empowering women to serve in all aspects of church life does more than affirm their call. For all of us it deepens our love and understanding of God and helps us to dream.

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13 comments “The Witness of Female Pastors: Empowering the Church to Dream”

 Your story is very similar to my own, Pastor Cathy. I, too, made the transition from old-school thinking about women in leadership and became a pastor at midlife. One of my deepest joys was seeing the normalcy of my presence in the congregation and how it impacted everyone, most particularly students. I just had the privilege of stepping out of retirement for a moment, to assist at the marriage of a former confirmand. She was of confirmation age within my first few years of ministry, has moved across the country to teach in inner-city schools, and when it came time to be married, she wanted her pastor there. And that was me. What a gift.

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That is really, really cool! The comment by Diana Trautwein is too! So happy for you both! And blessed to be a part of this historical trend. Paint away!

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Amen, Cathy!

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Pastor Cathy,
What a beautiful story!! I love that you are fully living into your pastoral identity as one who is called to break down barriers and make room for the beloved daughters of God. 

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Way to go, Pastor Cathy!  I share your in your joy and heartfelt mission – one generation at a time!

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I agree!  We do the kingdom of God a service when others witness women preaching and ministering!

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Pastor Cathy,

What a wonderful story. I feel like I know you better now than I have since I first met you at Trinity. You are making a difference and will continue to grow Trinity and enhance the Deer Park/Dillonvale area with the word of God.

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Excellent post!  Thank you!

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Such great article Pastor Cathy!  it was a pleasure watching you and your students at CHIC. You are blessing them and your congregation in many ways. 

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Pastor Cathy… I am so privileged to have been even a small part of your journey. The joy that you feel with those young women is what I felt as you grew into your call. Thank you for allowing me to see God work in your life!

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Great post. Great insite. 

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Pastor Cathy, As the mother of a young woman who was called to be a pastor even when her church didn’t support her and her parents didn’t understand I to have learned the value of women as Pastors. My own pastor is a woman and she and my daughter have been responsible for growing me beyond my wildest dreams. Thanks and blessings to all women Pastors.

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